What's actually causing it
Your jaw joint (the temporomandibular joint, one on each side, just in front of your ear) is small and does a lot of work, opening, closing and sliding side to side every time you talk, eat or yawn. Trouble there comes from the joint, from the muscles working it, or from both 1.
The muscular side is the part people are least often told about. Spasm in the muscles that close your jaw (the masseter at the angle of your jaw, the temporalis at your temple, and the pterygoids deeper inside) can cause real pain and limit how far you can open. The usual triggers are stress, grinding your teeth, and postural strain 6. Across people diagnosed with a jaw disorder, roughly 45% have a muscle disorder, 41% a disc problem inside the joint, and 30% another joint disorder 11.
Then there's your neck. Jaw pain can refer into the neck, and checking the neck and shoulder muscles for tenderness, trigger points and referred pain is part of a jaw examination 6. That's why a proper assessment looks at how you hold your head over a phone and how you carry a bag, not only at the joint that hurts. Symptoms are also worse when you're stressed 1 and when chewing 7, which is why jaw pain so often flares during a rough few weeks, then settles.